1 00:00:02,000 --> 00:00:07,000 Downloaded from YTS.BZ 2 00:00:08,000 --> 00:00:13,000 Official YIFY movies site: YTS.BZ 3 00:00:59,600 --> 00:01:02,920 Everything was great in Sweden. 4 00:01:03,080 --> 00:01:05,840 People lived well. 5 00:01:06,000 --> 00:01:09,000 The standard of living was high. 6 00:01:10,320 --> 00:01:13,800 Development. New thinking. 7 00:01:13,960 --> 00:01:16,520 Trust in our leaders. 8 00:01:16,680 --> 00:01:20,520 Then it was time to take another step forward- 9 00:01:20,680 --> 00:01:26,440 -and free ourselves from old-fashioned, outdated family structures- 10 00:01:26,600 --> 00:01:29,920 -that pervaded the way, we lived together on- 11 00:01:30,080 --> 00:01:34,440 -and made us dependent on each other. 12 00:01:36,320 --> 00:01:43,080 The idea had roots in the most Swedish value: Independence. 13 00:01:47,240 --> 00:01:54,720 In the winter of 1972, politicians launched a revolutionary vision of the future. 14 00:01:54,800 --> 00:02:00,440 An idea which, if carried out, should make life better for everyone. 15 00:02:00,600 --> 00:02:04,880 It was about time to free the woman from the man. 16 00:02:05,040 --> 00:02:11,560 Free the elderly from their children, free teenagers from their parents. 17 00:02:11,720 --> 00:02:16,240 A manifesto was written: The family in the future. 18 00:02:19,520 --> 00:02:23,160 Our goal is to change society- 19 00:02:23,240 --> 00:02:26,920 -so every human being can develop independently. 20 00:02:27,000 --> 00:02:32,720 Where all adults are financially independent of their family. 21 00:02:33,800 --> 00:02:35,760 The principle is simple: 22 00:02:35,840 --> 00:02:39,240 All are treated as independent individuals- 23 00:02:39,320 --> 00:02:42,480 -and not as a dependent of a breadwinner. 24 00:02:42,560 --> 00:02:48,800 It's about creating economic and social conditions- 25 00:02:48,880 --> 00:02:52,200 -which makes us independent as individuals. 26 00:02:55,080 --> 00:02:57,760 ...independent as individuals. 27 00:02:59,440 --> 00:03:03,080 That was the beginning on a liberation process. 28 00:03:03,160 --> 00:03:07,080 Liberation from addiction of our relatives. 29 00:03:07,240 --> 00:03:13,600 From now on should each and every one of us be free. 30 00:03:15,040 --> 00:03:17,720 Free from each other. 31 00:03:17,880 --> 00:03:22,840 From now on, only real relationships keep us together. 32 00:03:34,040 --> 00:03:37,840 We will hopefully begin- 33 00:03:37,920 --> 00:03:42,160 -with a provocation from Northern Europe. 34 00:03:42,320 --> 00:03:48,760 And before I continue, I think that we must proceed to the provocation. 35 00:03:48,920 --> 00:03:51,400 Be safe. 36 00:03:54,800 --> 00:03:59,440 \an1}-You must press a button. - This one? Is it better? 37 00:03:59,600 --> 00:04:01,320 Next picture. 38 00:04:03,840 --> 00:04:06,840 The Swedish theory of love. 39 00:04:07,680 --> 00:04:12,520 The Swedish theory of love. What is it about? 40 00:04:12,680 --> 00:04:19,760 All true relationships must build on independence between the parties. 41 00:04:21,840 --> 00:04:27,640 Independence between people. The woman who is dependent on her husband: 42 00:04:28,760 --> 00:04:34,320 How do we know that the parties voluntarily is in the relationship- 43 00:04:34,480 --> 00:04:39,040 -and not because of economic dependence? 44 00:04:41,120 --> 00:04:44,760 Children have extensive rights. 45 00:04:48,040 --> 00:04:52,760 The elderly are no longer dependent of the benevolence of their adult children. 46 00:04:54,760 --> 00:05:00,520 The ideal family in Sweden consists of adult individuals- 47 00:05:00,680 --> 00:05:03,720 - there are completely independent. 48 00:05:03,880 --> 00:05:07,520 Self employed. They work for their own sake. 49 00:05:07,680 --> 00:05:16,480 Self employed. For their own sake. Self employed. 50 00:05:20,640 --> 00:05:23,640 The Swedish theory of love. 51 00:05:58,720 --> 00:06:04,240 A friend and I had some trees, we talked on the way home. 52 00:06:06,600 --> 00:06:10,040 We asked them how they felt. 53 00:06:10,120 --> 00:06:16,560 How their day had been, and what they were going to do on holiday. 54 00:06:19,040 --> 00:06:23,680 As I remember it, did the trees answer us too... 55 00:06:24,680 --> 00:06:27,680 I don't remember what they said. 56 00:06:43,080 --> 00:06:46,160 I'm the type that needs space. 57 00:06:50,560 --> 00:06:55,280 It is probably very individual whether one need someone near you all the time- 58 00:06:55,360 --> 00:06:59,200 -or you are satisfied with meeting every now and then. 59 00:07:00,280 --> 00:07:02,560 It is probably very individual. 60 00:07:05,680 --> 00:07:08,760 So it was probably better for me to have a child alone- 61 00:07:08,840 --> 00:07:13,160 - and then take it easy with finding a partner. 62 00:07:14,560 --> 00:07:17,360 It just wasn't that important to me. 63 00:07:19,840 --> 00:07:21,960 Or almost not important at all. 64 00:07:22,040 --> 00:07:26,680 It was the child I longed for, not a relationship. 65 00:07:30,040 --> 00:07:33,560 Although I dreamed of to have a child with someone- 66 00:07:33,640 --> 00:07:36,600 -it has never scared me to be alone. 67 00:07:47,720 --> 00:07:50,400 I may miss company. 68 00:07:51,400 --> 00:07:55,040 That there is someone at home, when you get home. 69 00:07:55,120 --> 00:08:00,640 That someone else sometimes gets up and make breakfast. 70 00:08:01,680 --> 00:08:04,560 Someone to discuss the news with in the evening. 71 00:08:05,560 --> 00:08:08,440 One to put laundry together with. 72 00:08:11,640 --> 00:08:15,800 Living alone is not unusual in Sweden. 73 00:08:15,960 --> 00:08:22,440 Forty years after the birth of the manifesto almost half of us live alone. 74 00:08:22,600 --> 00:08:25,200 This is the highest number in the world. 75 00:08:25,360 --> 00:08:27,600 Having a child alone,- 76 00:08:27,680 --> 00:08:31,680 -as Maria Helena has done, is not unusual. 77 00:08:31,840 --> 00:08:37,080 Many are willing to help with bringing children into the world. 78 00:08:46,280 --> 00:08:50,200 We are all a part of human development. 79 00:08:50,360 --> 00:08:53,280 We should all strive to participate- 80 00:08:53,360 --> 00:08:57,000 - in the realization of man's full potential. 81 00:09:02,360 --> 00:09:06,880 I like adventures, love studies and sports and keeping fit. 82 00:09:07,040 --> 00:09:09,880 I am an academic and studying at the university. 83 00:09:10,040 --> 00:09:15,160 I am ambitious, hardworking and very proud of what I do. 84 00:09:17,000 --> 00:09:20,400 I am neither complicated or mysterious. 85 00:09:20,560 --> 00:09:22,560 I spend a lot of time on my work- 86 00:09:22,640 --> 00:09:27,080 - as key account manager in the transport industry. 87 00:09:27,240 --> 00:09:30,680 I want to help people and make a difference in someone's life. 88 00:09:32,680 --> 00:09:36,280 The fact that that it only takes five minutes- 89 00:09:36,440 --> 00:09:39,640 - makes it even easier to decide to help others. 90 00:09:39,800 --> 00:09:43,800 I have to do incredibly little to be of great help. 91 00:09:45,120 --> 00:09:50,840 In the beginning it was the money. Later I understood how important it was. 92 00:09:51,000 --> 00:09:55,920 And if I started as a donor now, I would gladly do it for free. 93 00:09:56,080 --> 00:10:01,320 I have always wanted to help others people. Now I am a sperm donor. 94 00:10:01,480 --> 00:10:04,440 Good luck in life. Roger. 95 00:10:58,440 --> 00:11:01,720 The world's largest sperm bank. 96 00:11:01,880 --> 00:11:06,920 170 liters of semen waiting to be delivered. 97 00:11:07,080 --> 00:11:10,920 Artificial insemination has taken place for many years. 98 00:11:11,080 --> 00:11:17,000 But in this Danish company got a visionary man a new idea- 99 00:11:17,160 --> 00:11:20,520 - more in line with our needs. 100 00:11:22,200 --> 00:11:27,960 I had a dream. It was a strange dream. 101 00:11:29,160 --> 00:11:32,800 Not a wet dream or something similar. 102 00:11:32,960 --> 00:11:35,960 Frozen semen. 103 00:11:37,240 --> 00:11:43,320 I knew nothing about sperm, procreation or fertility 104 00:11:43,480 --> 00:11:47,120 -so I started experimenting with my own sperm. 105 00:11:47,280 --> 00:11:54,200 I masturbated at home and tried to freeze the sperm in the freezer. 106 00:11:54,280 --> 00:11:58,320 After some time the freezer was full of semen. 107 00:11:58,480 --> 00:12:03,240 I also froze sperm with my parents. 108 00:12:03,400 --> 00:12:09,520 They must have forgiven me, because something good came out of it. 109 00:12:10,640 --> 00:12:14,520 Ten years ago constituted single women a small part 110 00:12:14,600 --> 00:12:17,600 - of those who bought semen. 111 00:12:18,080 --> 00:12:22,560 Today, they constitute single women, a growing number from Sweden- 112 00:12:22,720 --> 00:12:25,880 - half of the company's customers. 113 00:12:26,040 --> 00:12:30,400 There is an increasing number single women- 114 00:12:30,560 --> 00:12:35,920 - who need sperm to become pregnant. 115 00:12:36,080 --> 00:12:41,440 They think, “Why have a husband? I'm well educated and have money." 116 00:12:41,600 --> 00:12:47,600 "Why should I have a husband, cleaning and cooking 117 00:12:47,760 --> 00:12:54,920 -and live the old-fashioned way?" So they want to create a family alone. 118 00:12:55,080 --> 00:12:58,360 That's where we come into the picture. 119 00:12:58,520 --> 00:13:05,760 Single women choose someone, that reminds of themselves. 120 00:13:05,920 --> 00:13:08,800 The woman selects ten donors. 121 00:13:08,960 --> 00:13:14,400 You can make the search more specific, until there is only one left. 122 00:13:14,560 --> 00:13:19,560 She chooses the delivery date, delivery address- 123 00:13:19,720 --> 00:13:25,120 -and gives his credit card number. The order is handled the next day. 124 00:13:27,400 --> 00:13:34,120 The order is registered by the tender, who collects our deliveries every day. 125 00:13:34,280 --> 00:13:38,600 We have a tracking service. 126 00:13:38,760 --> 00:13:43,840 The customer can track the package, until it is delivered the next day. 127 00:14:08,840 --> 00:14:11,240 Insemination at home. 128 00:14:11,400 --> 00:14:14,680 Instructions for handling dry ice. 129 00:14:14,840 --> 00:14:18,440 Always use protective gloves. 130 00:14:23,400 --> 00:14:25,920 Thaw the ice with body heat. 131 00:14:26,080 --> 00:14:28,720 When the semen is thawed- 132 00:14:28,800 --> 00:14:34,040 -should you perform the insemination within 20 minutes. 133 00:14:43,880 --> 00:14:47,560 Get comfortable and recline- 134 00:14:47,720 --> 00:14:51,360 -so you can lie there for 30 minutes. 135 00:14:52,360 --> 00:14:58,520 Place a pillow under your hips, so the sheath points downwards. 136 00:15:01,520 --> 00:15:05,680 Insert the syringe far into the vagina- 137 00:15:05,840 --> 00:15:10,320 -as close to the cervix as possible. 138 00:15:12,680 --> 00:15:18,720 Relax and inject the semen carefully and slowly. 139 00:15:28,040 --> 00:15:31,280 try to relax if possible. 140 00:15:32,800 --> 00:15:36,920 Try to orgasm after insemination. 141 00:15:37,080 --> 00:15:41,960 Any vibrations can improve the possibilities. 142 00:15:45,000 --> 00:15:50,040 And after that can she continue as normal. 143 00:15:53,080 --> 00:15:55,200 It's easy. 144 00:15:55,360 --> 00:16:01,120 Yes, maybe even easier than in that real life. The man is redundant. 145 00:16:07,320 --> 00:16:12,600 The question is, what the man's role is in the future. 146 00:16:14,040 --> 00:16:17,760 What will happen to them, I don't know. 147 00:16:40,040 --> 00:16:45,120 Society collapses, if we don't reproduce. 148 00:16:45,280 --> 00:16:50,880 Then you have to import people from other cultures. 149 00:16:50,960 --> 00:16:52,840 It creates problems. 150 00:16:56,040 --> 00:17:00,600 We must be able to accommodate this demand in the future. 151 00:17:02,480 --> 00:17:05,800 We have to find a solution- 152 00:17:05,960 --> 00:17:11,520 -so women can use all their senses in the future. 153 00:17:14,440 --> 00:17:19,360 The answer is probably virtual contact between donor and recipient. 154 00:17:21,040 --> 00:17:27,600 They might eat a romantic one dinner together, virtually. 155 00:17:27,760 --> 00:17:32,000 Or go for a walk on the beach. 156 00:17:32,160 --> 00:17:36,000 They can also have intercourse. 157 00:17:36,160 --> 00:17:40,640 But it might not be so important to the woman. 158 00:17:40,800 --> 00:17:44,840 It's much more important to her, what she can see- 159 00:17:45,000 --> 00:17:49,000 -and smell and touch. 160 00:17:50,960 --> 00:17:54,440 Just like in real life. 161 00:17:54,600 --> 00:17:59,560 Just without the physical contact. 162 00:18:23,440 --> 00:18:30,400 The idea that we should be able to manage our lives alone- 163 00:18:30,560 --> 00:18:36,120 -is not a Swedish invention. It is part of a belief in individualism- 164 00:18:36,280 --> 00:18:41,400 - that has defined life throughout the western world for a number of years. 165 00:18:41,560 --> 00:18:44,920 But here in Sweden have we been unusually efficient- 166 00:18:45,000 --> 00:18:48,200 - in relation to to turn words into action. 167 00:18:50,040 --> 00:18:54,000 If we go back to my earlier point- 168 00:18:54,160 --> 00:18:59,560 - about the individualistic aspect in the Nordic societies... 169 00:18:59,720 --> 00:19:05,200 If we look at the last picture, shall I illustrate it to you. 170 00:19:05,360 --> 00:19:09,360 This is a map of values. 171 00:19:13,040 --> 00:19:15,120 Values. 172 00:19:17,440 --> 00:19:20,120 They are measured over two axes. 173 00:19:20,280 --> 00:19:26,360 One shows values ​​about survival versus self-actualization. 174 00:19:28,440 --> 00:19:33,680 You could say that is the difference in rich and poor countries. 175 00:19:40,320 --> 00:19:46,480 In poor countries, most people are busy of the most basic needs. 176 00:19:51,520 --> 00:19:55,640 Heal, roof over your head, clean water. 177 00:20:13,440 --> 00:20:15,560 Values. 178 00:20:36,440 --> 00:20:42,680 In rich countries you can afford to see itself as the most important thing in the world. 179 00:20:42,840 --> 00:20:47,160 Self-actualization, career... 180 00:20:47,320 --> 00:20:50,240 ...independence and so on. 181 00:20:56,240 --> 00:20:58,640 Values. 182 00:20:58,800 --> 00:21:02,160 The other axis measures the difference in values 183 00:21:02,320 --> 00:21:06,400 - which focuses on the individual as the center of society 184 00:21:06,560 --> 00:21:13,920 -and traditional values that emphasizes family, religion and nation. 185 00:21:16,360 --> 00:21:18,560 Values. 186 00:21:29,920 --> 00:21:36,080 If you look up in the right corner, you can see a small country. 187 00:21:36,240 --> 00:21:39,520 Completely isolated. 188 00:21:39,680 --> 00:21:42,000 It's Sweden. 189 00:21:42,160 --> 00:21:46,880 A society made up of individuals. 190 00:21:59,840 --> 00:22:04,400 Here half of us live alone- 191 00:22:04,560 --> 00:22:08,040 -and one in four dies alone. 192 00:22:09,160 --> 00:22:13,600 In this building it is found authority 193 00:22:13,760 --> 00:22:18,320 -who takes care of them, has gone unnoticed- 194 00:22:18,480 --> 00:22:21,040 -and is not missed by anyone. 195 00:22:22,040 --> 00:22:24,880 Where is the daughter? 196 00:22:24,960 --> 00:22:29,960 I have left a message on her voicemail- 197 00:22:30,040 --> 00:22:34,520 -and asked her to call, but I haven't heard anything. 198 00:22:34,600 --> 00:22:37,760 They obviously had no contact. 199 00:22:38,960 --> 00:22:42,160 They had not seen each other for 30 years. 200 00:22:42,240 --> 00:22:45,800 No one has heard from his daughter. 201 00:22:47,600 --> 00:22:52,800 It is important... After all, the daughter must be informed- 202 00:22:52,880 --> 00:22:56,000 - because she's from the estate sole representative. 203 00:22:56,080 --> 00:23:01,200 We must determine whether she in fact is his legal child. 204 00:23:02,880 --> 00:23:06,400 There is no information about a daughter. 205 00:23:06,480 --> 00:23:09,640 -Isn't there? -And you don't know her name? 206 00:23:09,720 --> 00:23:11,840 No, I don't know that. 207 00:23:11,920 --> 00:23:17,320 But now what if she chooses not to answer? 208 00:23:17,400 --> 00:23:19,400 Then time passes. 209 00:23:19,480 --> 00:23:22,520 I don't want to get involved. 210 00:23:22,600 --> 00:23:26,880 I'm pretty tired of this. 211 00:23:26,960 --> 00:23:30,160 Had he any auto paid bills? 212 00:23:30,240 --> 00:23:34,760 Yes, the domestic help was paid automatically. 213 00:23:34,840 --> 00:23:40,520 Namely. Then we say it. Many thanks. Goodbye. 214 00:23:42,960 --> 00:23:44,840 Let's see… 215 00:23:46,440 --> 00:23:51,760 Annie is looking for a deceased man's nearest relative. 216 00:23:51,920 --> 00:23:54,720 A daughter no one can get hold of. 217 00:23:57,640 --> 00:24:03,280 Her employees deal with such cases every day. 218 00:24:06,440 --> 00:24:11,840 Then the search at a close relative doesn't lead anywhere- 219 00:24:12,000 --> 00:24:15,160 -takes Annie and Luis home to the man- 220 00:24:15,240 --> 00:24:19,320 - to find out more about his life and family. 221 00:24:21,120 --> 00:24:25,760 A few days ago complained the neighbors about a foul smell. 222 00:24:25,920 --> 00:24:32,000 The police found a man who had lay dead on the floor for three weeks. 223 00:25:14,680 --> 00:25:17,440 Washing machine... 224 00:25:24,560 --> 00:25:28,600 A lot of... money in the bank. 225 00:25:29,720 --> 00:25:32,160 DKK 950,000. 226 00:25:33,240 --> 00:25:36,360 And over 100,000 in another bank. 227 00:25:36,440 --> 00:25:39,880 So he had several accounts. 228 00:25:39,960 --> 00:25:44,040 -He was a wealthy man. - Yes, you can say that. 229 00:25:44,120 --> 00:25:50,200 No indication of contact with family or friends. 230 00:25:50,280 --> 00:25:52,120 Nothing at all. 231 00:25:52,200 --> 00:25:57,560 He has been sitting here at the computer... all alone. 232 00:25:57,640 --> 00:26:00,880 And moved money around between accounts. 233 00:26:07,800 --> 00:26:13,800 His life seems to have revolved around the home. 234 00:26:13,880 --> 00:26:20,480 He only went out when it was absolutely necessary to buy food. 235 00:26:24,520 --> 00:26:31,200 He didn't call the neighbor to get company. 236 00:26:31,280 --> 00:26:35,880 Had he not needed food, had he just stayed here. 237 00:26:36,920 --> 00:26:42,600 He may have been sitting here in the chair by the TV and did nothing. 238 00:26:42,680 --> 00:26:47,600 He must have sunk deeper and deeper into his own thoughts. 239 00:27:00,040 --> 00:27:03,600 I think loneliness has increased. 240 00:27:03,680 --> 00:27:08,920 Based on the number of cases, we get in- 241 00:27:09,000 --> 00:27:15,600 -there seem to be more, there have been dead in the home- 242 00:27:15,680 --> 00:27:19,320 -than just ten years ago. 243 00:27:24,560 --> 00:27:26,880 We have to fend for ourselves. 244 00:27:26,960 --> 00:27:29,360 We are no longer one of the group. 245 00:27:29,440 --> 00:27:33,160 We are no longer one in a large family. 246 00:27:33,240 --> 00:27:37,480 After all, we live for ourselves behind our closed door. 247 00:27:38,480 --> 00:27:41,120 Who can we ask for help? 248 00:27:41,200 --> 00:27:45,160 We become blinded of our independence. 249 00:27:45,240 --> 00:27:50,120 What does a million in the bank mean, if I'm not happy? 250 00:27:55,760 --> 00:27:57,800 After all, we all die eventually. 251 00:28:12,840 --> 00:28:15,720 When you don't find a relative- 252 00:28:15,800 --> 00:28:18,680 - who can make claims on the deceased's possessions- 253 00:28:18,840 --> 00:28:21,800 -exceeds all valuables to the state. 254 00:28:21,960 --> 00:28:27,320 All other belongings are collected together and driven to the landfill. 255 00:28:38,280 --> 00:28:41,080 Is this a rare example? 256 00:28:41,240 --> 00:28:45,200 Or is it so life will end for most of us- 257 00:28:45,360 --> 00:28:49,440 -now that we live in this over-organized, efficient- 258 00:28:49,600 --> 00:28:53,960 -work-based system with welfare and self-determination? 259 00:28:57,840 --> 00:29:02,280 Sweden is viewed from the outside like a paradise. 260 00:29:02,440 --> 00:29:06,000 A perfect place for to live a better life. 261 00:29:06,160 --> 00:29:09,880 A country where you run great risks to take to. 262 00:29:27,840 --> 00:29:32,360 An incredible number of refugees come here from countries in crisis. 263 00:29:32,520 --> 00:29:37,360 They hope to have a better life, peace and security 264 00:29:37,520 --> 00:29:39,920 -or just to survive. 265 00:29:56,040 --> 00:29:58,560 This is my brother. 266 00:29:59,640 --> 00:30:02,840 These are my nephews. 267 00:30:04,440 --> 00:30:08,800 This is taken inside the house. Here I am. 268 00:30:09,760 --> 00:30:12,880 This is the house after the bombing. 269 00:30:14,520 --> 00:30:18,160 In comparison... 270 00:30:19,160 --> 00:30:21,440 ...is this taken before the bombing. 271 00:30:25,440 --> 00:30:29,560 Some of them are lucky to meet Nhela. 272 00:30:29,720 --> 00:30:36,360 She's lived here long enough to know how everything works. 273 00:30:36,520 --> 00:30:40,480 Her task is to help newcomers 274 00:30:40,640 --> 00:30:46,080 -guide them and familiarize them with our Swedish values. 275 00:30:47,080 --> 00:30:50,280 What does "on time" mean? 276 00:30:50,360 --> 00:30:55,600 You have to be on time. Is it at 14, are you there at 14. 277 00:30:55,680 --> 00:31:00,240 In Sweden, time is very important. 278 00:31:01,640 --> 00:31:04,560 You must not be late. 279 00:31:04,640 --> 00:31:09,920 You have to be on time at school and at work. 280 00:31:10,000 --> 00:31:12,160 Are you there, Jonas? 281 00:31:12,240 --> 00:31:17,880 Time is incredibly important. You must not be late. 282 00:31:20,440 --> 00:31:22,640 "Where are you from?" 283 00:31:25,440 --> 00:31:27,920 "Where are you from?" 284 00:31:28,000 --> 00:31:32,240 "I come from Syria." "I come from Eritrea." 285 00:31:32,320 --> 00:31:35,440 Syria. Are all from Syria? And Eritrea? 286 00:31:35,520 --> 00:31:39,840 -Are you from Syria? -No. 287 00:31:39,920 --> 00:31:45,680 -No? "I come from..." -I come from Eritrea. 288 00:31:46,720 --> 00:31:53,600 Today we will practice giving short answers to these questions. 289 00:31:53,680 --> 00:31:58,080 Swedes love short answers. Do you understand that? 290 00:31:58,160 --> 00:32:00,280 Why do we give short answers? 291 00:32:00,360 --> 00:32:03,200 Like if we say, "Are you okay?" 292 00:32:03,280 --> 00:32:05,080 -Are you doing well? - It's going well. 293 00:32:05,160 --> 00:32:08,040 "Well." And then it's over. 294 00:32:08,120 --> 00:32:11,960 You don't need to say more. 295 00:32:12,040 --> 00:32:15,920 The Swedes don't want to talk much. 296 00:32:16,000 --> 00:32:20,440 - In short. - They like that. 297 00:32:24,560 --> 00:32:26,160 Are you doing well? Yes. 298 00:32:27,200 --> 00:32:31,840 Are you from Syria? Yes. Such. 299 00:32:32,880 --> 00:32:35,760 Yes or no. Do you understand that? 300 00:32:35,840 --> 00:32:38,960 "Do you understand?" Then you say "yes". 301 00:32:39,040 --> 00:32:40,680 Or "no". 302 00:32:40,760 --> 00:32:42,440 No discussion. 303 00:32:43,720 --> 00:32:49,960 So we have to ask each other questions and give short answers. 304 00:32:50,040 --> 00:32:53,040 -Are you married? -Yes. 305 00:32:54,320 --> 00:32:57,960 -What about you, Ogbe? Are you married? -Specific. 306 00:32:59,000 --> 00:33:05,320 Yes? No, why "definitely"? It is not certain that one is married. 307 00:33:05,400 --> 00:33:09,520 Maybe you are cohabiting. 308 00:33:09,600 --> 00:33:15,080 Then you are together, but not married. 309 00:33:18,840 --> 00:33:22,080 There is also "särbo". 310 00:33:22,160 --> 00:33:24,360 What is "särbo"? 311 00:33:24,440 --> 00:33:28,360 This means that living here... 312 00:33:28,440 --> 00:33:31,560 ...and the boyfriend lives there. 313 00:33:33,680 --> 00:33:36,960 But we meet at the weekend. 314 00:33:57,000 --> 00:34:00,280 Some ask, how they should learn the language. 315 00:34:00,360 --> 00:34:05,880 "You say I must learn it, but the lessons don't help." 316 00:34:08,040 --> 00:34:11,720 “If I don't have to go out and talk to Swedes..." 317 00:34:11,800 --> 00:34:15,600 "It is hopeless, if I don't meet Swedes." 318 00:34:17,960 --> 00:34:23,400 "Where are the Swedes? I never see Swedes." 319 00:34:23,480 --> 00:34:26,160 "I never see Swedes." 320 00:35:37,040 --> 00:35:42,120 Seven years after they were granted asylum, and if they are lucky- 321 00:35:42,280 --> 00:35:45,480 -will our new friends meet some of us. 322 00:35:45,640 --> 00:35:48,640 Seven years is the average time it takes- 323 00:35:48,720 --> 00:35:54,720 -for refugees to find a job and be integrated into society. 324 00:35:54,880 --> 00:35:57,960 The longest time in Europe. 325 00:35:58,120 --> 00:36:03,040 They will find that it is not impossible to be friends with us- 326 00:36:03,200 --> 00:36:05,480 -if they understand the codes. 327 00:36:05,640 --> 00:36:10,120 Social contact takes place frequently through organized activities. 328 00:36:10,200 --> 00:36:16,040 Hello, everyone. My name is Jan and is the operational manager of the search. 329 00:36:16,120 --> 00:36:17,840 I am the one in charge. 330 00:36:17,920 --> 00:36:23,240 So thank you for coming, esp to those of you who have come several times- 331 00:36:23,320 --> 00:36:25,760 - to help find Sonja. 332 00:36:28,640 --> 00:36:33,360 Every weekend groups use of volunteers spend their free time on 333 00:36:33,440 --> 00:36:37,080 - to be part of a search team, looking for them- 334 00:36:37,160 --> 00:36:42,040 - have disappeared in residential areas and forests. 335 00:36:43,640 --> 00:36:46,840 You get an area to search. 336 00:36:46,920 --> 00:36:53,720 There are villa and residential areas and here in the terrain. 337 00:36:55,840 --> 00:37:01,800 The Missing People movement is became a popular social activity- 338 00:37:01,960 --> 00:37:05,960 - with over 25,000 active members. 339 00:37:10,920 --> 00:37:14,280 Please put yourself on the list. 340 00:37:16,360 --> 00:37:20,880 We ask everyone to come come back here and check yourselves out. 341 00:37:22,200 --> 00:37:28,240 We are afraid of losing any of you during the search. 342 00:37:29,920 --> 00:37:32,280 Are there any questions? 343 00:37:34,320 --> 00:37:36,120 No? 344 00:38:24,360 --> 00:38:26,480 -How's it going? -Fine. 345 00:38:26,560 --> 00:38:28,880 Well. 346 00:38:32,520 --> 00:38:38,840 Some have disappeared now, so there will be even more. 347 00:38:38,920 --> 00:38:41,880 New families will arrive tomorrow. 348 00:38:43,040 --> 00:38:50,240 -How many? - Here in Gusum we have 220. 349 00:38:51,800 --> 00:38:54,240 And now even more are coming? 350 00:38:55,520 --> 00:39:00,560 -What to say? - I don't know that either. 351 00:39:00,640 --> 00:39:03,800 Our kindergartens are completely full. 352 00:39:03,880 --> 00:39:07,800 So many of the children are foreigners… 353 00:39:08,840 --> 00:39:13,320 What if it comes more Swedes? It's full here. 354 00:39:13,400 --> 00:39:16,240 We can't accept more. 355 00:39:16,320 --> 00:39:19,800 It's such a small community. It makes no sense. 356 00:39:19,880 --> 00:39:25,640 I don't know... No. 357 00:39:27,680 --> 00:39:30,840 It's fun watching you weave. 358 00:39:31,960 --> 00:39:34,680 We have done that for many years. 359 00:39:35,840 --> 00:39:41,240 This is a weaving course, so no others can come. 360 00:39:41,320 --> 00:39:45,920 There is only for us, who signed us up. 361 00:40:10,040 --> 00:40:13,120 i don't think that the Swedes are racists. 362 00:40:13,200 --> 00:40:19,440 They believe in human rights and thinks a lot about others. 363 00:40:19,520 --> 00:40:23,320 The problem is, that they will keep it at bay. 364 00:40:23,400 --> 00:40:26,520 It must not be near their home. 365 00:40:28,960 --> 00:40:34,160 Swedes live individually. The individual is at the center. 366 00:40:34,240 --> 00:40:35,960 Nothing else. 367 00:40:37,000 --> 00:40:39,880 You don't think on his brother or his mother. 368 00:40:39,960 --> 00:40:45,640 As soon as you are of age, it is only about the individual. 369 00:40:47,680 --> 00:40:54,120 You are the one who needs to feel good. You are the one who has to live your life. 370 00:40:55,760 --> 00:41:02,720 So many live alone. i don't know if it makes them happier. 371 00:41:02,800 --> 00:41:05,880 At least it's not for me. 372 00:41:05,960 --> 00:41:09,280 I wouldn't be able to live one single day alone. 373 00:41:20,280 --> 00:41:22,800 It's starting to smell... 374 00:41:22,880 --> 00:41:25,640 But it's just a smell. 375 00:41:29,360 --> 00:41:33,200 No one takes the next step. 376 00:41:33,280 --> 00:41:38,520 It doesn't occur to one that someone might be dead- 377 00:41:38,600 --> 00:41:43,280 -just behind the door next to mine. 378 00:41:44,720 --> 00:41:47,200 I don't know why this happens. 379 00:42:24,960 --> 00:42:27,040 You must close the door. 380 00:42:32,560 --> 00:42:37,160 It is a person who... 381 00:42:39,560 --> 00:42:42,360 ...who committed suicide here. 382 00:42:42,440 --> 00:42:45,040 About two years ago. 383 00:42:46,040 --> 00:42:50,360 It was discovered recently. 384 00:42:51,560 --> 00:42:54,920 As I said, it was suicide. He hanged himself. 385 00:43:03,360 --> 00:43:10,800 One can wonder how he can be two years in the apartment... 386 00:43:12,440 --> 00:43:14,280 ...dead. 387 00:43:14,360 --> 00:43:16,200 This is thanks to... 388 00:43:16,280 --> 00:43:21,840 A large part is due the automatic payments. 389 00:43:21,920 --> 00:43:24,600 The money comes in- 390 00:43:24,680 --> 00:43:30,000 -and the bills, above all the rent is paid automatically. 391 00:43:30,080 --> 00:43:34,200 So no one reacts. Nobody notices anything. 392 00:43:46,680 --> 00:43:49,320 Here is the cash. 393 00:43:52,600 --> 00:43:57,720 “This is money from sold valuables." 394 00:43:57,800 --> 00:44:01,920 It seems he was preparing. 395 00:44:03,280 --> 00:44:07,960 He sold all valuables. But for whom? 396 00:44:09,640 --> 00:44:13,120 "To the authorities." 397 00:44:14,400 --> 00:44:19,720 How ironic to pay your bills after death. 398 00:44:33,160 --> 00:44:37,800 I wonder, why are we so unhappy- 399 00:44:37,880 --> 00:44:40,480 -amidst all this abundance? 400 00:44:43,600 --> 00:44:45,960 Everyone goes their own way. 401 00:44:46,040 --> 00:44:49,520 Nothing holds us together. 402 00:44:52,880 --> 00:44:58,960 If you get sick or can't stand anything- 403 00:44:59,040 --> 00:45:04,920 - it is arranged in a very public way. 404 00:45:05,000 --> 00:45:08,120 You can't cry at anyone. 405 00:45:08,200 --> 00:45:11,760 You must apply for something instead. 406 00:45:27,640 --> 00:45:30,680 Is it really that simple? 407 00:45:30,840 --> 00:45:35,120 There are those who do not buy these values- 408 00:45:35,280 --> 00:45:39,680 -and have seen through the independent lifestyle 409 00:45:39,840 --> 00:45:47,160 - and who are not happy about the idea about becoming independent individuals. 410 00:45:47,320 --> 00:45:53,280 In our search for such a person, have we come to this forest 411 00:45:53,440 --> 00:45:57,640 -where groups of young people takes away 412 00:45:57,800 --> 00:46:03,240 -to try to create small havens of warmth and togetherness. 413 00:46:36,400 --> 00:46:41,480 They are not alive. They don't breathe and they don't laugh. 414 00:46:41,560 --> 00:46:45,360 You can't make eye contact or talk to them. 415 00:46:45,440 --> 00:46:49,280 They work and watch TV... 416 00:46:50,840 --> 00:46:56,360 It is very strange. we love crying and living every single day. 417 00:46:56,440 --> 00:46:59,000 We are here together. 418 00:47:00,240 --> 00:47:02,440 We do as we please. 419 00:47:04,240 --> 00:47:10,760 For me it was an incredible relief to meet someone who wanted to meet me. 420 00:47:10,840 --> 00:47:15,040 To see people who wanted to see again. 421 00:47:15,120 --> 00:47:19,680 When I fall back in old patterns- 422 00:47:19,760 --> 00:47:25,320 -and is with someone who doesn't wants to see me, I get sad. 423 00:47:25,400 --> 00:47:30,600 Because then I understand how important the touch and contact- 424 00:47:30,680 --> 00:47:33,880 -the true contact from the heart, is. 425 00:47:33,960 --> 00:47:38,640 There we can reflect each other and be authentic and create love. 426 00:47:46,720 --> 00:47:51,640 For me it's about to experience being happy. 427 00:47:51,720 --> 00:47:58,000 What our society offers us, has nothing to do with happiness. 428 00:47:58,080 --> 00:48:00,240 It is only about security. 429 00:48:00,320 --> 00:48:04,120 I have understood that security is not the same as happiness. 430 00:48:04,200 --> 00:48:08,800 Rather, it may be the opposite. The security can make me unhappy. 431 00:48:08,880 --> 00:48:13,840 The security of society is not the same as happiness. 432 00:48:13,920 --> 00:48:19,480 It's a way of life, but so must one be unhappy as a human being. 433 00:48:21,000 --> 00:48:25,040 Problems are precisely, that society takes care of us. 434 00:48:25,120 --> 00:48:27,960 It's not us that take us apart. 435 00:48:28,040 --> 00:48:32,880 In Colombia... Grandma lives at home and look after the grandchildren. 436 00:48:32,960 --> 00:48:35,840 She dies with her family around her. 437 00:48:35,920 --> 00:48:38,800 She has her family with her all the way. 438 00:48:38,880 --> 00:48:44,040 Here we sit in each of our apartments and is looked after by society- 439 00:48:44,120 --> 00:48:47,400 -and forget to look after each other. 440 00:48:47,480 --> 00:48:49,600 It makes me very sad. 441 00:49:03,880 --> 00:49:07,760 It doesn't matter if you are a closed person in the metro- 442 00:49:07,840 --> 00:49:12,160 -who just eats, sleeps, throwing up and eating burgers. 443 00:49:12,240 --> 00:49:13,920 It doesn't matter. 444 00:49:14,000 --> 00:49:16,480 That person is also welcome here. 445 00:49:16,560 --> 00:49:19,400 It may take a few days or weeks maybe- 446 00:49:19,480 --> 00:49:22,960 -but you want to see that person grow... 447 00:49:23,040 --> 00:49:27,760 The first time I came here, it was like an incredible exhalation. 448 00:49:28,800 --> 00:49:33,880 Everyone should come here or find a place where they will be happy. 449 00:49:34,880 --> 00:49:36,640 A place where they get love. 450 00:49:36,720 --> 00:49:39,240 We want to love. 451 00:51:21,880 --> 00:51:24,000 Independent. 452 00:51:27,360 --> 00:51:30,200 Independent as an individual. 453 00:51:36,800 --> 00:51:40,080 A society made up of individuals. 454 00:51:40,240 --> 00:51:44,680 Sweden is the future, the symbol of the future. 455 00:51:44,840 --> 00:51:50,400 A leading country for the rest of the Western world. 456 00:51:50,560 --> 00:51:55,280 Let's leave the perfect and move towards the progress- 457 00:51:55,440 --> 00:52:02,640 - to Sweden's direct opposite on this map of values: 458 00:52:02,800 --> 00:52:05,920 Africa. Ethiopia. 459 00:52:09,640 --> 00:52:13,720 Wollega, a remote region in the eastern part of the country. 460 00:52:13,880 --> 00:52:17,120 Doctor Erichssen's new home. 461 00:52:21,440 --> 00:52:26,720 Something has gone wrong in Sweden because of all the social reforms. 462 00:52:26,880 --> 00:52:32,600 People feel lonely. 463 00:52:32,680 --> 00:52:40,160 People are so isolated, and especially they old people feel lonely... 464 00:52:40,320 --> 00:52:46,680 ...so now the Red Cross in Sweden has started a campaign... 465 00:52:46,840 --> 00:52:52,280 ...to encourage people to care on their older family members. 466 00:52:52,440 --> 00:52:58,240 You are never alone here. You always are together with other people. 467 00:52:58,400 --> 00:53:02,800 If you get sick, people stick around not gone, but coming to visit. 468 00:53:02,960 --> 00:53:07,000 If you are dying, is anyone sitting with one. 469 00:53:07,160 --> 00:53:11,080 Even after death you are never alone. 470 00:53:13,280 --> 00:53:15,480 Never. 471 00:53:15,640 --> 00:53:19,880 After working as a surgeon in Sweden for 30 years- 472 00:53:20,040 --> 00:53:24,840 -moved dr. Erichssen to Ethiopia with his wife Sennait. 473 00:53:28,000 --> 00:53:32,960 At this field hospital has he found a new meaning. 474 00:53:33,120 --> 00:53:38,040 He struggles daily with limited funds 475 00:53:38,200 --> 00:53:43,800 -to help patients whose lives is a constant struggle for survival. 476 00:53:51,360 --> 00:53:54,640 It will probably work. 477 00:53:59,840 --> 00:54:04,480 Is there anyone who can call to the technical department? 478 00:54:04,640 --> 00:54:08,360 Another alternative is to cap it here, and afterwards... 479 00:54:09,440 --> 00:54:12,200 That is another possibility. 480 00:54:12,360 --> 00:54:17,200 To cut it with a saw and remove it. 481 00:54:20,040 --> 00:54:22,240 Where's the wiper? 482 00:54:22,400 --> 00:54:27,920 Here is the one I found it. 483 00:54:28,080 --> 00:54:30,080 We have one here. 484 00:54:32,280 --> 00:54:35,440 Okay, let me just switch… 485 00:54:43,480 --> 00:54:46,840 They were out hunting. 486 00:55:12,440 --> 00:55:14,920 Okay, let's get started. 487 00:55:16,240 --> 00:55:18,280 Continue. 488 00:55:21,720 --> 00:55:24,480 Okay. How to... 489 00:55:25,760 --> 00:55:28,680 Okay. Well. 490 00:55:31,200 --> 00:55:34,920 Only a few millimeters from the big vessels. 491 00:55:35,080 --> 00:55:38,760 Only a few millimeters. Unbelievable! 492 00:55:56,400 --> 00:55:59,840 Well, the power went out. 493 00:56:00,000 --> 00:56:05,520 It is fortunate that we have solar collectors, so it doesn't get pitch dark. 494 00:56:10,000 --> 00:56:13,280 Naturally, the conditions are a bit... 495 00:56:13,440 --> 00:56:16,480 They are not as good as in Sweden. 496 00:56:17,200 --> 00:56:19,920 Limited resources... 497 00:56:20,080 --> 00:56:24,040 ...lack of equipment...and routines. 498 00:56:24,200 --> 00:56:26,320 Chaos. 499 00:56:27,360 --> 00:56:31,920 Down at the local market screws can be found. 500 00:56:32,080 --> 00:56:36,560 They are not for medical purposes, but in the absence of better ones, one takes them. 501 00:56:36,720 --> 00:56:40,760 It's just the imagination that sets limits. 502 00:56:48,160 --> 00:56:55,600 Bicycle bars are everywhere in the world. These are on the wheel. 503 00:56:55,760 --> 00:57:00,200 - Spokes. - They are very useful. 504 00:57:00,280 --> 00:57:07,760 You can use them as intramedullary fixation for fractures in the bone. 505 00:57:07,840 --> 00:57:12,520 The bent piece prevents that they slide inwards. 506 00:57:13,640 --> 00:57:18,920 My colleagues back home would say, that they rust, and it is correct- 507 00:57:19,080 --> 00:57:22,200 -but rust from steel is not harmful. 508 00:57:24,640 --> 00:57:28,200 A plumber knows, what do you use such a thing for. 509 00:57:28,360 --> 00:57:34,120 It holds hoses together. But that one can also be used for broken bones. 510 00:57:34,280 --> 00:57:37,360 If the fracture is slightly oblique 511 00:57:37,520 --> 00:57:43,240 - you can put it around the fracture and hold it in place. 512 00:57:43,400 --> 00:57:46,400 And these strips- 513 00:57:46,560 --> 00:57:53,040 - can be placed around the fracture and tighten. It is strong. 514 00:57:53,200 --> 00:57:55,280 Very useful. 515 00:57:55,440 --> 00:58:00,120 Here we have nylon line on a reel. 516 00:58:01,400 --> 00:58:06,360 A fishing line. And a hypodermic needle. 517 00:58:09,440 --> 00:58:14,480 The problem is that no one at home in the so-called first world, think- 518 00:58:14,640 --> 00:58:17,240 -that they can learn something from Africa. 519 00:58:18,640 --> 00:58:24,320 This is...hairpins. 520 00:58:24,480 --> 00:58:30,800 When doing prostate surgery, a frequent complication occurs: 521 00:58:30,960 --> 00:58:33,840 Incontinence. 522 00:58:34,000 --> 00:58:39,600 I tried on myself to see if it worked. 523 00:58:40,520 --> 00:58:45,720 It's a penis clamp. If the squeeze too hard, you bend it. 524 00:58:52,600 --> 00:58:58,920 It is a little rusty, but it works. Well... 525 00:58:59,080 --> 00:59:04,560 This is a drill from the local supermarket. 526 00:59:04,720 --> 00:59:08,480 If you buy the ones that are calculated for medical purposes- 527 00:59:08,640 --> 00:59:13,480 -they cost around 4,000 euros. 528 00:59:13,640 --> 00:59:17,200 These cost 15 euros in the supermarket. 529 00:59:17,360 --> 00:59:19,160 Clas Ohlson! 530 00:59:22,760 --> 00:59:26,160 Apply a nice bandage. Thanks. 531 00:59:38,200 --> 00:59:41,680 Here we have a material need. 532 00:59:41,760 --> 00:59:47,120 But the spiritual need in Sweden is even greater than the material one here. 533 00:59:48,120 --> 00:59:50,120 I think so. 534 01:00:19,840 --> 01:00:25,480 When I go back to Sweden, I meet with my colleagues. 535 01:00:29,440 --> 01:00:34,280 They complain more and more over bureaucracy and paperwork. 536 01:00:34,360 --> 01:00:37,320 They drown in it. 537 01:00:39,040 --> 01:00:42,520 The system chokes on it. 538 01:00:48,040 --> 01:00:53,920 It's a bigger culture shock to come to Sweden than to come here. 539 01:00:56,240 --> 01:01:02,280 You have nothing to talk about with people, and people are preoccupied with their own. 540 01:01:03,480 --> 01:01:10,120 People are so self-absorbed and of realizing their goals. 541 01:01:44,920 --> 01:01:49,400 If I were not married to Sennait, had I never ended up here. 542 01:01:49,480 --> 01:01:53,560 I had been a completely different person. 543 01:01:54,960 --> 01:01:59,800 I must have lived a boring... 544 01:01:59,880 --> 01:02:04,920 Life in Ethiopia has given me so much. 545 01:02:05,000 --> 01:02:07,240 Life experience... 546 01:02:08,240 --> 01:02:15,640 I had led a regular Swedish life with summer house and boat... 547 01:02:17,600 --> 01:02:22,040 "Should we build an enclosed porch?" 548 01:02:23,200 --> 01:02:28,760 Sauna... That was probably the end of my life. 549 01:02:30,480 --> 01:02:32,880 New car. 550 01:02:34,280 --> 01:02:36,640 That kind of thing. 551 01:02:36,720 --> 01:02:39,680 What occupies most people at home. 552 01:02:46,480 --> 01:02:50,200 This young girl... 553 01:02:50,360 --> 01:02:54,840 ...come here to the hospital a few years ago. 554 01:02:55,000 --> 01:02:58,960 Then she looked like this. 555 01:02:59,120 --> 01:03:05,400 She covered her mouth with cloth. That's what she looked like. 556 01:03:07,000 --> 01:03:12,680 It's a tumor on the tongue. A slow growing tumor. 557 01:03:14,600 --> 01:03:20,800 I still can't understand how she could eat. 558 01:03:20,960 --> 01:03:25,160 How could she breathe, when she slept? 559 01:03:25,320 --> 01:03:28,880 I was forced to remove the tongue. 560 01:03:29,040 --> 01:03:35,240 The jawbone was deformed due to the pressure of the tumor- 561 01:03:35,400 --> 01:03:39,280 - so I had to too to remove parts of the jawbone. 562 01:03:39,440 --> 01:03:42,000 She was so brave. 563 01:03:42,160 --> 01:03:44,920 She never complained, never cried. 564 01:03:45,080 --> 01:03:51,320 This is, when the external fixation was removed- 565 01:03:51,480 --> 01:03:55,280 -three months after the operation. She looks tired. 566 01:03:55,440 --> 01:04:01,040 So I said, "You look tired." She had been walking for eleven hours. 567 01:04:03,320 --> 01:04:06,040 Here it is removed. 568 01:04:06,200 --> 01:04:11,080 This is a year later. She came back and greeted us. 569 01:04:15,840 --> 01:04:18,120 Who is that? 570 01:04:21,720 --> 01:04:24,640 Don't you remember? 571 01:04:39,560 --> 01:04:44,640 This is the real reward, worth more than all the money in the world. 572 01:05:11,320 --> 01:05:14,640 We have a lot to learn of this culture. 573 01:05:19,440 --> 01:05:22,440 I admire the people here. 574 01:06:38,840 --> 01:06:43,360 A place free for famine and poverty- 575 01:06:43,520 --> 01:06:49,600 -free from people and hassle. So peaceful, so perfect. 576 01:06:49,760 --> 01:06:56,920 What do we think about it? We ask for guidance and wise words. 577 01:06:57,080 --> 01:07:03,880 One who has reflected a lot over the individualized society 578 01:07:04,040 --> 01:07:10,760 -is it Zygmunt Bauman, 90-year-old Polish sociologist. 579 01:07:10,920 --> 01:07:13,840 It's not true... 580 01:07:16,440 --> 01:07:21,600 ...that happiness is the same like a carefree life. 581 01:07:21,760 --> 01:07:26,920 A happy life involves, that one overcomes worries- 582 01:07:27,080 --> 01:07:30,760 -and solves problems. 583 01:07:30,920 --> 01:07:35,440 You face challenges, do your best and make an effort. 584 01:07:35,600 --> 01:07:38,920 Happiness comes when you can see- 585 01:07:39,080 --> 01:07:44,080 -that the challenges have been dealt with. 586 01:07:45,920 --> 01:07:51,280 The joy you feel when overcoming problems- 587 01:07:51,440 --> 01:07:56,600 -or fighting against them, defy them and solve them… 588 01:07:56,760 --> 01:08:02,320 That joy is lost, when prosperity increases. 589 01:08:13,000 --> 01:08:15,480 Independent as individuals. 590 01:08:16,960 --> 01:08:19,440 You have everything. 591 01:08:21,840 --> 01:08:28,360 You have sufficient funds to escape hunger and poverty. 592 01:08:30,040 --> 01:08:32,760 But something you don't have- 593 01:08:32,920 --> 01:08:38,560 - and as the state or the politicians can't help- 594 01:08:38,720 --> 01:08:42,320 -is to be together with other people. 595 01:08:42,480 --> 01:08:46,680 Being with other people, to be one of the group. 596 01:08:46,760 --> 01:08:49,080 You have to manage that yourself. 597 01:08:59,280 --> 01:09:04,120 People who are brought up to be independent- 598 01:09:04,280 --> 01:09:07,760 -loses ability- 599 01:09:07,920 --> 01:09:13,440 - to live together with other people. 600 01:09:14,680 --> 01:09:20,440 Because one has been deprived of the ability to socialize. 601 01:09:22,440 --> 01:09:26,040 Socialize. Socialize. 602 01:09:27,720 --> 01:09:30,760 Socialize. 603 01:09:30,920 --> 01:09:34,320 It is incredibly tiring. 604 01:09:34,480 --> 01:09:38,480 It requires a great deal of commitment and a lot of energy. 605 01:09:38,640 --> 01:09:42,560 You have to negotiate back and forth- 606 01:09:42,720 --> 01:09:48,400 -discuss, agree, change something... 607 01:09:52,840 --> 01:09:58,560 Independence robs us the opportunity to do so. 608 01:10:04,560 --> 01:10:06,960 Independent. 609 01:10:17,200 --> 01:10:22,480 We compartmentalize our lives in two different worlds: 610 01:10:22,640 --> 01:10:25,360 Online and offline. 611 01:10:27,200 --> 01:10:30,520 On and off. 612 01:10:34,400 --> 01:10:39,960 Life on the Internet is to a very high degree risk-free. 613 01:10:44,000 --> 01:10:45,880 Risks in life. 614 01:10:46,040 --> 01:10:51,080 It's that easy making friends on the internet. 615 01:10:53,200 --> 01:10:56,720 No one notices that they are lonely. 616 01:10:59,200 --> 01:11:03,480 If you don't like someone's views… 617 01:11:05,720 --> 01:11:09,320 ...you just stop with talking to them. 618 01:11:11,920 --> 01:11:14,920 In real life… 619 01:11:17,440 --> 01:11:23,960 ...you can't help but see diversity among people. 620 01:11:24,120 --> 01:11:28,640 People are different: Passersby, strangers... 621 01:11:30,600 --> 01:11:35,960 You have to dare to enter into a conversation. 622 01:11:36,120 --> 01:11:43,560 One must realize the fact that that people are different. 623 01:11:45,000 --> 01:11:49,160 When we have a conversation, we never know how it will end. 624 01:11:49,320 --> 01:11:54,120 But instead of proving that you is smart and everyone else is stupid- 625 01:11:54,280 --> 01:11:58,000 -does it prove that others are smart, and that you are stupid. 626 01:12:04,960 --> 01:12:10,480 Independence robs us the opportunity to do so. 627 01:12:17,200 --> 01:12:19,680 A society consisting of individuals… 628 01:12:19,840 --> 01:12:26,280 When independence increases, it becomes harder to let go of independence- 629 01:12:26,440 --> 01:12:32,880 -and replace it with a pleasurable interdependence. 630 01:12:35,800 --> 01:12:38,480 Mutual dependence. 631 01:12:42,600 --> 01:12:45,400 Mutual dependence. 632 01:12:57,800 --> 01:13:02,800 The result of independence is not happiness. 633 01:13:04,000 --> 01:13:11,480 The result of independence is emptiness, a life without meaning- 634 01:13:11,640 --> 01:13:16,640 A life that is unimaginable boring. 635 01:14:29,560 --> 01:14:33,560 Danish texts: www.btistudios.com